Retirement Villages in New Zealand: What You Need to Know Before You Sign Anything

Retirement Villages in New Zealand: What You Need to Know Before You Sign Anything

About 57,000 New Zealanders currently live in a retirement village. By 2033, that number is projected to hit 78,000 — and by 2048, well over 116,000. The industry is building about 1,700 new units a year, but at that pace, New Zealand will be short roughly 11,000 units by 2033 and 23,000 by 2048. That's not an abstract policy problem. That's real people competing for a shrinking pool of places, probably paying more than they expected, and signing contracts most of them won't fully understand until they — or their children — try to leave.

We spent weeks digging through disclosure statements, reading Occupation Right Agreements, talking to people who've been through the process, and studying the legislation that governs this sector. What we found is a system that works well for a lot of people but contains genuine traps for the unwary. The gap between the glossy brochure and the legal document sitting behind it is wider than most people realise.

This article is not a sales pitch. It's not anti-village either. It's an honest, detailed walk through how retirement villages actually work in New Zealand — the money, the legal rights, the things that go wrong, and the questions you need to ask before you hand over a cheque that could represent most of your life savings.

What You're Actually Buying (Spoiler: It's Not a House)

When you "buy" a unit in a New Zealand retirement village, you are almost never buying property. You're buying an Occupation Right Agreement — a licence to occupy. The land and building still belong to the operator. You get the right to live there, subject to the village rules, for as long as you like. When you leave, the operator resells the unit to the next resident, and you receive your original entry payment back — minus several deductions we'll get to shortly.

This distinction matters because it means you don't own an appreciating asset. If the unit sells for $200,000 more than you paid, the operator typically keeps every dollar of that gain. If the market drops and it sells for less, the operator bears the loss — not you. Most contracts are structured, so you're protected from downside risk but excluded from upside reward. Some operators offer capital gain sharing (you might keep 20–50% of any increase), but these arrangements are the exception, not the norm.

There are broadly three types of retirement village living in New Zealand:

• Independent living — a villa, apartment, or townhouse where you live self-sufficiently. Most villages start here. Entry prices range from about $195,000 for a provincial studio to over $2 million for a premium Auckland apartment. The median advertised entry price across the country sits around $490,000.
• Serviced apartments — similar living arrangements but with meals, cleaning, and some personal care included. Weekly fees are higher (typically $250–$500) and entry prices tend to be lower than independent units.
• Care suites and rest home beds — full residential care within the village. Funded differently and often involves a separate contract with the care operator. Rest home care currently costs roughly $1,200–$1,800 per week, some of which may be covered by government subsidies depending on your financial situation.

The six largest operators — Ryman (15,500+ residents), Summerset (9,500+), Arvida (6,750), Metlifecare, Oceania (3,900), and Bupa — control the bulk of the market, but there are over 490 registered villages nationwide, many run by smaller operators and community trusts. The quality, pricing, and contract terms vary dramatically between them.

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Location Changes Everything — Regional Pricing Realities

Where you buy makes an enormous difference to what you'll pay. The gap between Auckland's priciest suburbs and a provincial town can be six figures — and that's before you factor in the DMF.

There's a deeper point here that matters more than the sticker price. When you buy into an Auckland village at $900,000, your 30% DMF is $270,000. Buy into a provincial village at $350,000 and your DMF is $105,000. Same percentage, dramatically different dollar amounts — but you're receiving essentially the same legal structure and the same lack of property ownership in both cases. The lifestyle premium you're paying in Auckland mostly goes to the operator, not to you. That's worth sitting with for a moment before you sign.

Waiting lists also vary by region. Auckland's premium villages — Edmund Hillary in Remuera, Selwyn Village in Pt Chevalier — can have waits running into years. Provincial villages often have immediate availability. If you're flexible on location, you have considerably more negotiating power than you might think.

The Deferred Management Fee — The Number That Actually Determines What You Get Back

If there's one part of the retirement village model that catches people off guard, it's the deferred management fee — the DMF. It's the amount the operator keeps when you leave. You don't pay it upfront. It accrues while you live there, and it's deducted from your capital when the unit is resold.

Across New Zealand's 220-odd villages with publicly available disclosure statements, the most common DMF cap is 30% of your entry payment. About 139 villages use this rate. Another 51 cap at 25%. The full range runs from 5% to 39%. The fee typically accrues at around 7.5–10% of your entry price per year, reaching its maximum within three to five years. Once capped, it doesn't grow further — stay 15 years, and you'll pay the same DMF as someone who left after five.

Here's what that looks like with real numbers. You pay $600,000 for a licence to occupy. The DMF accrues at 10% per year, capped at 30%. After three years, the full $180,000 DMF has accrued. If you leave at year three, you receive $420,000 (minus any other deductions). Leave at year twelve, still $420,000. Leave at year two — which does happen, if your health declines faster than expected — and only $120,000 has accrued, so you'd get $480,000 back.

The DMF is supposed to cover long-term village maintenance, communal facilities, and the cost of refurbishing your unit for the next resident. Whether it actually does, or whether operators double-dip by charging separate refurbishment fees on top, depends entirely on your specific contract. Some ORAs bundle refurbishment into the DMF. Others exclude it and bill you separately for new carpet, painting, and appliance replacement. Get this clarified in writing before you sign — the difference could be tens of thousands of dollars.

Weekly Fees, Marketing Costs, and the "Empty Unit" Trap

While you're living in the village, you'll pay a weekly fee covering operating costs — rates, building insurance, grounds maintenance, staff wages, communal facilities. These range from about $130 a week for a basic independent unit to $500 or more for serviced apartments. The median sits around $179 per week among villages that publish exact figures. Some operators fix these fees for life once you reach a certain age. Others increase them annually, typically pegged to inflation or the rate of NZ Super. Over a 10-year stay, even a modest $200 weekly fee adds up to $104,000.

But the real sting can come after you leave. Under many current ORAs, weekly fees continue even after you've moved out or passed away — and they keep running until the operator finds a new resident to take over your unit. In a slow market, that can take months. Consumer NZ and the Retirement Villages Residents Association have documented cases where families waited two to three and a half years for their loved one's capital to be returned, all while the village continued deducting fees. One woman gave notice to terminate her ORA in December 2023. She made a formal complaint in November 2025 — nearly two years later — and still hadn't received her money back.

The Retirement Villages Association says the average repayment takes about five and a half months. That may be accurate as an industry average, but averages hide the tail — and the tail is where real people get hurt. Some ORAs include a backstop date (for example, the operator must repay within 24 months regardless of whether the unit has sold). Many don't. Check yours.

The government has announced reforms: a proposed 12-month statutory repayment deadline with interest payable after six months, and a rule that weekly fees must stop when you vacate the unit. An amendment bill is expected in mid-2026. But here's the gut-wrenching detail: these protections are expected to apply only to new ORAs signed after the law passes, not to the roughly 57,000 people already living in villages. If you sign before the reforms take effect, you may never benefit from them.

The Legal Framework — What's Actually Protecting You

The Retirement Villages Act 2003 governs every registered village in New Zealand. It's the foundation — but it's 23 years old, and almost everyone involved agrees it needs updating.

Under the Act, every village must provide you with a Disclosure Statement before you sign anything. This document (filed with the Companies Office) spells out the entry price, DMF structure, weekly fees, services, facilities, and financial details. Read it. Then get your lawyer to read it. The law requires you to receive independent legal advice before signing an ORA — the lawyer must actually certify that you understood what you were signing. Don't skip this step to save $800. The financial consequences of misunderstanding an ORA run into six figures.

Every village must also appoint a statutory supervisor — an independent watchdog licensed by the Financial Markets Authority. Their job is to monitor the operator's compliance with the law and protect residents' financial interests. If things go wrong, the statutory supervisor has legal powers to step in. In practice, many residents don't know who their statutory supervisor is or how to contact them. Find out. Their name is in your disclosure statement.

You also have a 15-working-day cooling-off period after signing — you can cancel without penalty during this window. Use those 15 days to have your lawyer review everything properly. Once that window closes, getting out becomes expensive.

The complaints process has been widely criticised as legalistic and inaccessible. There's a formal two-tier system — internal complaint first, then escalation to a dispute panel — but the Retirement Commission itself recommended it be redesigned. Consumer NZ has pushed for an independent ombudsman. The Retirement Villages Residents Association handled 168 complaints last year alone, with repayment delays the single biggest category. A new independent dispute resolution scheme is part of the reform package, but again — it won't be available until after the law changes.

Can the Operator Go Under? What Actually Happens

This is the question that keeps people awake at night — and it's a fair one. You've handed over $600,000 or $900,000 to a company for a licence to occupy. What if that company collapses?

The short answer is that residents have stronger legal protection than you might expect, but it's not absolute. Here's how the safeguards work.

Every registered village has a memorial registered on its land title. This is a legal mechanism under section 22 of the Act. In plain English: if the operator goes into receivership or liquidation, the receiver or liquidator cannot evict residents, cannot cancel occupation right agreements, and cannot sell the village out from under them — unless at least 90% of residents have received independent legal advice and consented in writing. In practice, that threshold is nearly impossible to meet without residents' cooperation, which means your right to stay in your unit is strongly protected.

The statutory supervisor represents residents collectively in any negotiation with receivers or liquidators. They're not an advocate for individual residents — their role is to protect the collective interest — but they're legally required to stand between residents and anyone trying to dismantle the village. If the supervisor believes the village's financial position is inadequate, they can apply to the High Court for orders to protect residents.

There is a real-world precedent. The Cashmere Capital case, which reached the Supreme Court in 2009, involved an unregistered village operator that became insolvent. The court upheld that residents' occupancy rights took priority over the bank's mortgage—even without the full protections of the 2003 Act in place, because the village should have been registered. That's a strong legal signal in residents' favour.

The practical risk is less about losing your home and more about what happens to village standards if an operator is financially distressed. Maintenance might slip. Staff numbers might reduce. The swimming pool heater might stay broken for six months. Your statutory supervisor monitors these things — they review audited financial statements annually, look for debt level changes, missed bank covenants, declining occupancy, and maintenance backlogs — but monitoring isn't the same as preventing. Smaller operators without public financial reporting are harder to scrutinise than listed companies, which is a genuine argument in favour of choosing a listed operator.

How to Read an Operator's Financial Health

Listed operators publish detailed annual reports. You don't need to be an accountant to spot the important numbers. Here's what matters and what it actually means.

Gearing ratio — this is debt as a percentage of total assets. It tells you how much of the village is funded by borrowing versus equity. Ryman Healthcare, New Zealand's largest operator, reported gearing of 27.8% as at March 2026, which it describes as the lowest in the listed sector. For context, Ryman completed a full bank refinance during FY26, has no bank debt maturing until 2031, and holds $675 million in undrawn facilities. Two years ago, the picture looked different — gearing was higher, and the company was burning cash during a housing downturn. The balance sheet reset involved a $1 billion equity raise and a significant slowdown in new development. That's the kind of adjustment a listed company can make because it has access to capital markets. A small private operator in the same position might have fewer options.

Free cash flow — is the village generating more cash than it's spending? Ryman turned cash-flow positive in FY26 for the first time in over a decade ($188 million). This matters because retirement villages are capital-intensive — they're constantly building, maintaining, and refurbishing. A village that can't generate enough cash to cover its costs will eventually cut corners somewhere.

Weighted average cost of debt and interest cover ratio — these tell you whether the operator can comfortably service its loans. Ryman's average cost of debt dropped from 6.2% to 5.9% in FY26, with 77% of drawn debt on fixed rates. Its interest cover ratio sits at 2.5 times — meaning operating earnings cover interest payments two and a half times over. That's comfortable.

Occupancy rates — JLL data shows the industry average is around 91%. A village running significantly below that may be struggling to attract residents, which could indicate problems with location, pricing, reputation, or management. Ask the salesperson directly: what's this village's current occupancy rate, and how long do units typically take to sell?

For private operators, you won't find published annual reports. Ask to see the disclosure statement (which includes summary financial information) and check whether the statutory supervisor has raised any concerns at the last annual general meeting. Residents have a right to attend that meeting and ask questions. Use it.

What Salespeople Won't Volunteer

Retirement village salespeople are, by and large, decent people doing a job. But their job is to sell units. Here's what the glossy tour and the complimentary lunch won't tell you.

"The village rules might not suit how you actually want to live." Your ORA is not just a financial contract — it's a lifestyle contract. It can restrict pets (size, breed, number), overnight guests (some villages limit stays to 30 nights per year), modifications to your unit (you might need permission to paint a wall), and even what you can plant in your garden. These rules are enforceable. Read them before you sign, not after you've moved in and discovered your daughter can't stay for six weeks after her surgery.

"The community might not be as welcoming as the brochure suggests." This is delicate territory, but it needs saying. A significant New Zealand study published in the journal International Psychogeriatrics surveyed over 500 retirement village residents and found that 25.8% reported feeling lonely when assessed clinically, and 37.4% said they felt lonely sometimes, often, or always. The people most at risk were those who were widowed, divorced, or separated — and, tellingly, those who had moved into the village specifically to gain more social connections. Moving somewhere for community doesn't guarantee you'll find it. The research also found that loneliness was strongly associated with depression and reduced quality of life. This isn't a reason to avoid villages — it's a reason to be realistic about what they can and can't deliver, and to maintain your existing friendships and family relationships regardless of where you live.

"If your health declines, the transition within the village can be harder than you expect." Villages market the "continuum of care" as a seamless journey from independent living to assisted living to rest home. The reality can be rougher. A University of Canterbury study of two New Zealand villages found that as residents' health failed and they moved from independent to supported living within the same village, their sense of personal autonomy eroded significantly. The transition happened in the same physical space — the same grounds they'd walked independently, the same dining room where they used to host family — which made the loss of independence more visible and more painful. The researchers described it as a "debilitating impact on well-being." This doesn't mean the continuum of care is bad. It means the emotional experience of declining within a community that knew you when you were well is complex, and nobody prepares you for it.

"Your children might not get your money back for a long time after you're gone." The salesperson will talk about community and lifestyle. They probably won't mention that in 2024–2025, the Residents Association handled 168 formal complaints — and the single biggest category was repayment delays after death or departure. The longest case involved an estate waiting three and a half years. Even the RVA's own executive director described that as "inexcusable." If preserving an inheritance matters to you, this part of the contract needs your attention. Ask about the village's actual average repayment timeframe — not the industry average, this specific village. Ask for it in writing.

"The village's financial model depends on you leaving eventually." This sounds obvious, but it's worth stating plainly. The operator makes money when units turn over — new residents pay the entry price, the DMF gets banked, and the cycle repeats. A village full of healthy 95-year-olds who never leave is financially worse for the operator than a village where units change hands every five to seven years. This doesn't mean operators are hoping you'll die. It means their incentives are structured around turnover, not longevity. The model works, but you should understand whose interests it's designed to serve.

How Retirement Villages Compare to Your Other Options

Let's step back and look at this through a wider lens. If you're 70-something, own your home mortgage-free, and are thinking about the next 15–20 years, a retirement village is one option among several. Here's how they stack up.

Let's flesh out the main alternatives.

Downsizing to a smaller property — a townhouse, a modern apartment, a single-level unit — releases equity tax-free, reduces ongoing costs, and keeps you in full control of your asset. You avoid the DMF entirely. You get any capital gain. The trade-off is that you don't get the community, the security, or the continuum of care that villages offer. For many people, this is the financially optimal choice — but it doesn't solve for loneliness, and it doesn't provide a path into care if you need it later.

Reverse mortgages let you stay put and draw cash from your home equity. Heartland Bank is the main provider — their current variable rate is 7.75%. The problem is compound interest. A $100,000 loan at 7.75% roughly doubles in 9–10 years if you make no repayments. After 20 years, it's $400,000. The no-negative-equity guarantee means you'll never owe more than the home's value, but your estate will receive dramatically less. Reverse mortgages are useful as a last-resort income supplement. They're a poor substitute for a well-planned retirement housing strategy.

Co-housing and shared equity models are rare in New Zealand but growing. Community-led developments like the ones emerging in Auckland and Wellington offer a middle ground — you own your unit outright (no DMF), but you share communal spaces and sometimes care responsibilities. The waiting lists are long and the supply is tiny. This will likely become more common as the village shortage bites, but it's not a practical option for most people right now.

Renting is the fallback for those who can't afford any of the above. It provides flexibility but zero security — you can be asked to leave with 90 days' notice, and in your 80s, finding a new rental is brutal. NZ Super alone barely covers rent in most cities, let alone living costs.

Residential care — rest homes and private hospitals — is a different category altogether. It's for people who can no longer live independently. Government subsidies are available if your assets fall below certain thresholds (currently $300,811 for a single person as at 1 July 2026), but the asset-testing process is complex and many people burn through their savings before qualifying.

Real Money, Real Outcomes — Three Scenarios

Let's ground this in actual numbers. Meet three hypothetical (but realistic) people at the same village with a $600,000 entry price, a 30% DMF capping at year three, $180 weekly fees, and no capital gain sharing.

Margaret, 78, stays 12 years and leaves on her own terms. She sells her Wellington home for $850,000, pays $600,000 for a two-bedroom villa, and invests the remaining $250,000. Her weekly fees of $180 total $112,320 over 12 years — significant, but the lifestyle works for her. She makes friends, joins the walking group, and when she needs a hip replacement, the village's care coordinator smooths the hospital-to-home transition. When she moves to a care suite within the village at 90, her DMF is already capped at $180,000. She receives $420,000 back. Combined with her remaining investments and NZ Super, she has enough. Margaret's outcome: positive. The village delivered exactly what she paid for — community, security, and a dignified path into care.

Bill, 74, leaves after two years because of a sudden health crisis. He paid $600,000 for his unit. His DMF has only accrued to $120,000 (20% at two years). But his ORA charges refurbishment costs separately — new carpet, repainting, appliance upgrades — which comes to $28,000. Marketing costs add another $8,000. His unit takes seven months to relicense, during which weekly fees continue at $180 ($5,460 total). His refund: $600,000 minus $120,000 (DMF) minus $28,000 (refurbishment) minus $8,000 (marketing) minus $5,460 (fees) equals $438,540. He's lost $161,460 in two years on what was supposed to be his retirement home. Bill's outcome: financially poor. The system punished him for leaving early through no fault of his own.

Anne, 82, passes away after four years, and her children handle the exit. She paid $600,000 for her two-bedroom apartment. Her DMF is fully capped at $180,000. The village remarkets the unit promptly — it sells in three months. Her ORA specifies no separate refurbishment charges. Weekly fees stop on vacation (her ORA was one of the better ones). The estate receives $420,000 within four months. Anne's outcome: neutral to positive. The DMF was a high cost, but the process was smooth, and the family wasn't burdened.

Same village, same entry price, three different outcomes — all determined by health timing, contract details, and market conditions that no one controls when they sign.

The Stuff Nobody Warns You About — Identity, Autonomy, and Family

There's a psychological dimension to moving into a retirement village that the financial guides rarely touch, and it matters at least as much as the DMF.

Moving into a village means publicly identifying as "old." For many people, that's the hardest part. You're leaving the neighbourhood where you raised your children, where your neighbours know your name, where you're seen as a person rather than a resident. The village environment, for all its warmth, is explicitly designed for the final chapter. That can feel liberating — or it can feel like a countdown. Neither reaction is negative, but knowing which camp you're in before you sign is worth more than any amount of legal advice.

The Canterbury University research on transitions within villages is sobering. When residents moved from independent living to supported care within the same village — the same grounds, the same dining room, the same faces — they experienced a measurable erosion of autonomy that the researchers described as "debilitating." The physical space that once represented freedom became a daily reminder of what they'd lost. The village's marketing promised a seamless continuum, but the emotional experience was anything but.

There's also the family dimension. Your children may feel relief that you're in a safe, supported environment — but they may also feel guilt. They may worry about the cost. They may disagree with your choice of village or question whether you're moving too early. When you eventually pass away, they'll be the ones dealing with the operator to get your money back. If that process drags on for 18 months — which it can — it adds financial stress to grief. Having an honest family conversation before you sign, with your lawyer present, is one of the most undervalued steps in the entire process.

The loneliness research from the International Psychogeriatrics study deserves attention too. More than a third of residents surveyed felt lonely at least some of the time. The people most at risk were widowed or separated — and, critically, those who moved specifically to find community. Moving into a village doesn't automatically create meaningful friendships. The people who thrive are often those who already had strong social skills and existing relationships outside the village. The village amplifies what you bring to it — it doesn't create social connection from scratch. If you're moving because you're lonely now, consider whether independent living with a deliberate effort to build community — through volunteering, clubs, or moving closer to family — might address the root cause more directly than a licence to occupy in a village where you still don't know anyone.

Questions to Ask Before You Sign Anything

If you're considering a village, take this list to your lawyer. Don't accept verbal assurances — get answers in writing.

1. What is the DMF cap, and how fast does it accrue? Not "about 30%" — the exact percentage and the exact accrual schedule. Is it calculated on your original entry price or the resale price?
2. Does the DMF include refurbishment costs, or are those separate? If separate, what's the typical range? Ask to see invoices from recent refurbishments.
3. Are there marketing or resale fees deducted from your refund? Some operators charge thousands to advertise your unit. Others bundle this into the DMF.
4. Do weekly fees stop when you vacate, or continue until the unit is relicensed? If they continue, by how much are they reduced? (The Code of Practice requires at least a 50% reduction after vacancy, but some operators go further.)
5. Is there a backstop date for your refund? If the unit hasn't sold after 12 months, 18 months, 24 months — does the operator have to repay you anyway?
6. How are capital gains and losses treated? Do you share in any gain? Are you fully protected from losses? Get the exact formula.
7. What's the financial position of the operator? Are their accounts publicly available? Who is the statutory supervisor and how do you contact them? What was discussed at the last residents' AGM?
8. What happens if you need to move to a higher level of care? Does the village have rest home or hospital beds? Do you get priority access? Is the DMF transferable between units within the same village?
9. Can you have pets, overnight guests, or make modifications to your unit? Rules vary. Some villages restrict guest stays to a certain number of nights per year. Get the exact policies.
10. Has the village had any formal complaints or disputes in the past three years? The disclosure statement should reference these. If the salesperson can't answer, contact the Retirement Commission or the Retirement Villages Residents Association.
11. What is this specific village's actual average resale timeframe? Not the industry figure. This village. For the past two years. In writing.

How to Actually Decide

There's no perfect answer to the retirement housing question. But there is a framework for thinking about it clearly.

Start with your non-negotiables. Do you need to be near family? Do you need a continuum of care — the ability to move from independent living to assisted living to rest home without leaving the community you know? Is preserving your estate for your children a priority, or are you comfortable spending your capital on your own quality of life?

Then do the maths — not on the brochure, on the disclosure statement. Calculate what you'd get back if you left after two years, five years, and ten years. Factor in the weekly fees. Compare that with what you'd have if you downsized to a smaller house, invested the surplus, and paid for home help as needed. For many people, especially those in good health with strong family networks nearby, the financial case for a village is weaker than the lifestyle case. That doesn't make it the wrong choice — it just means you need to understand what you're paying for.

Visit at least three villages. Don't just take the sales tour — come back at a different time of day unannounced and walk around. Talk to residents who aren't on the welcoming committee. Ask them what they wish they'd known before moving in. Look at the noticeboard. Check whether the facilities are actually being used or whether they're showpieces. If the swimming pool is empty at 2 PM on a Tuesday, it's probably always empty.

Check the operator's financials if they're listed. A quick look at gearing (ideally under 35%), free cash flow (positive is good), and any recent capital raises or asset sales will tell you whether the operator is stable or scrambling. For private operators, ask to attend a residents' meeting or request summary financials through the statutory supervisor.

Finally, involve your family in the decision. Your children may one day be the ones dealing with the village operator to get your money back. They need to understand how the contract works too. A family meeting with your lawyer present — before you sign — is worth every dollar it costs.

One More Thing to Think About

There's a quiet trade at the heart of the retirement village model that nobody talks about in the brochures. You're trading control for peace of mind. You're exchanging property ownership — and all the rights that come with it — for a community that looks after you. For many people, that's a genuinely good trade. The loneliness of an empty family home, the stress of maintaining a large property as your body slows down, the anxiety of not knowing who'll help if you fall — these are real burdens, and villages genuinely relieve them.

But the trade only works if the contract holds up its end. And right now, New Zealand's legal framework doesn't guarantee that it will. The reforms coming in 2026 will help — but they won't be retroactive, and they won't fix everything. The power imbalance between a billion-dollar listed operator and an 80-year-old resident who needs their money back will remain, however much the law papers over it.

A quarter to a third of residents in New Zealand villages report feeling lonely. People who move to villages specifically seeking connection are among the most at risk — the village gives you proximity to people, but it can't give you friendship. That part is still on you. The people who thrive in villages are often the same people who would thrive anywhere — they're socially skilled, they maintain outside relationships, they treat the village as a home base rather than their entire world. If that's you, a village might be wonderful. If you're hoping the village will solve a loneliness you've been carrying for years, it probably won't.

So go into this with your eyes wide open. Read the disclosure statement. Hire a lawyer who specialises in retirement village contracts — not your family solicitor who did your will in 2003. Ask the uncomfortable questions. If the salesperson dodges them, walk away. There are over 490 villages in New Zealand, and more being built. You have options. The one thing you don't have is a second chance to get the contract right once you've signed it.

This is likely the biggest financial decision you'll make after buying your family home. Treat it with the care it deserves — and treat yourself with the honesty the glossy brochures won't offer you.